Tobias' Recovery

  Tobias is eager to talk, a strong desire to chat evident in him. Can you imagine having thoughts and feelings, yet struggling to make others truly understand you? Since I've dedicated myself to being there for Tobias, I have an abundance of time to listen.  I keep asking him over and over until I can figure out what he's trying to say. It's just too bad that most folks don't have that kind of time, patience, or know-how to handle these situations.  Honestly, it's tougher on me than on Tobias, I think. Sometimes in those awkward moments, my ego pops up, and I'm like, "Does he think Tobias is dumb or what?" I guess it's just human nature to have those thoughts, you know? I gotta share some awesome moments with Tobias!  The other day, Tyler was a total champ and took care of him and I got a break. He brought Tobias downstairs and into the kitchen. Tyler left for a bit, and guess what? Tobias, being the clever dude he is, managed to move his wheelcha